kcmomma
08-24-2008, 09:11 AM
where have they been for the past 3 years :rofl
I don't know WTH happened to my husband!! He's been ultra clingy lately, for lack of a better word. He CONSTANTLY wants to spend time with me. Now this isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's TOTALLY uncharacteristic of him. He has panic and anxiety disorder so large groups of people, or places where he doesn't know many people upset him. He often refuses to go to my family functions because when just my parents, mom's sisters, and my first cousins, their spouses and now children get together, there's at least 27 of us...and to him, that's too many. Last Sunday he volunteered to go to my family corn roast :dunno(but when I couldn't promise him that I'd be home by 8p.m. --it didn't start until 5 and is a hour away) he decided to stay home. (He had to go to work at 4 am). He kept Madison for me Wednesday night, even giving her a bath and washing her hair, when I had 9th grade orientation for Key Club...he rarely does this and always complains when ever Key CLub takes me away from my family...even though Madison LOVES going with me. He was going to keep her Thursday night, but his train was stuck in Tyrone, 2 hours away and you can't just leave your train.... He took care of her Friday night and cooked supper for me since I had a sick sinus headache and was on the couch, even though he too had a headache. Yesterday morning he kept her for me so that I could go to the teacher's appreciation day at Staples without trying to man-handle her and the crowds. He went with my sister and I shoe shopping for my 6yr old niece. Took Madison and Katie to the train store so I could help my sister find a dress for my niece Jordyn. AND when his grandmother brought up that "we should have another to give Madison a brother or sister" yesterday afternoon...he didn't FLIP on her or make a side handed comment like usual. AND THEN!!! He brought it up again this morning that maybe we should try for another!!! :nowayWHAT.THE.HECK!!!! My heart has been breaking for the past 3 years, knowing that there's at least another child in my heart, that I'm not done having children, even though he went and had a vasectomy before Madison was even born...but NOW!!! :wail All of my prayers for the past 3 years have apparently FINALLY reached him:amen....now if only the V wasn't successful :D I asked him if another baby would be the worst thing in the world to happen (knowing how he freaked when he found out Madison was coming) and he said by no means.... It's going to have to be a miracle where a little swimmer gets by because I know a reversal isn't covered by our health insurance....and I also know that there's not money in our budget to go about a reversal or infertility treatments...
Why couldn't this ephiphinay(sp) have hit him in 2003 BEFORE he had it done or if he would have waited until she was born like I asked??? Off to pray for a shoddy V and a least one swimmer to get through :outtahere
I don't know WTH happened to my husband!! He's been ultra clingy lately, for lack of a better word. He CONSTANTLY wants to spend time with me. Now this isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's TOTALLY uncharacteristic of him. He has panic and anxiety disorder so large groups of people, or places where he doesn't know many people upset him. He often refuses to go to my family functions because when just my parents, mom's sisters, and my first cousins, their spouses and now children get together, there's at least 27 of us...and to him, that's too many. Last Sunday he volunteered to go to my family corn roast :dunno(but when I couldn't promise him that I'd be home by 8p.m. --it didn't start until 5 and is a hour away) he decided to stay home. (He had to go to work at 4 am). He kept Madison for me Wednesday night, even giving her a bath and washing her hair, when I had 9th grade orientation for Key Club...he rarely does this and always complains when ever Key CLub takes me away from my family...even though Madison LOVES going with me. He was going to keep her Thursday night, but his train was stuck in Tyrone, 2 hours away and you can't just leave your train.... He took care of her Friday night and cooked supper for me since I had a sick sinus headache and was on the couch, even though he too had a headache. Yesterday morning he kept her for me so that I could go to the teacher's appreciation day at Staples without trying to man-handle her and the crowds. He went with my sister and I shoe shopping for my 6yr old niece. Took Madison and Katie to the train store so I could help my sister find a dress for my niece Jordyn. AND when his grandmother brought up that "we should have another to give Madison a brother or sister" yesterday afternoon...he didn't FLIP on her or make a side handed comment like usual. AND THEN!!! He brought it up again this morning that maybe we should try for another!!! :nowayWHAT.THE.HECK!!!! My heart has been breaking for the past 3 years, knowing that there's at least another child in my heart, that I'm not done having children, even though he went and had a vasectomy before Madison was even born...but NOW!!! :wail All of my prayers for the past 3 years have apparently FINALLY reached him:amen....now if only the V wasn't successful :D I asked him if another baby would be the worst thing in the world to happen (knowing how he freaked when he found out Madison was coming) and he said by no means.... It's going to have to be a miracle where a little swimmer gets by because I know a reversal isn't covered by our health insurance....and I also know that there's not money in our budget to go about a reversal or infertility treatments...
Why couldn't this ephiphinay(sp) have hit him in 2003 BEFORE he had it done or if he would have waited until she was born like I asked??? Off to pray for a shoddy V and a least one swimmer to get through :outtahere