View Full Version : Did you invite ex's to your wedding?
His or yours?
Did you invite them or were the on a definate black list (or maybe you wanted to or he wanted to but the other oposed?)
gr8mommy
05-19-2008, 10:40 AM
Two of mine were there. They'd both started as friends, and after I'd dated them for a while, we decided we were better as friends. My husband and I are still friendly with both of them.
None of my husband's exes were on the list. I didn't know any of them, and he wasn't interested in inviting any.
Yes, my one ex was invited. We got married in Vegas and he just happened to be living there at the time. He did come, too. :)
Dh's ex-wife was definitely NOT invited! It'd have been a cold day in Hades when that psycho hose beast was welcome at our wedding. :lmao He wasn't in touch with any of his other exes then so they weren't asked, either.
:lmao Mary I'd have thought she'd have been your first choice for matron of honour ;) :lmao :evil
Denise- we had very similar to you, those that were mutual friends were invited, those who were exclusively our romantic ex's and nothing else generally we haven't maintained friendships to have warranted inviting them.
Jejune
05-19-2008, 11:07 AM
One of Daniel's exes attended. I don't really have any exes, per se.
Jbird
05-19-2008, 11:13 AM
None of mine were there or invited.
I think two of DH's exes were invited & there. One is a good friend of the family and the sister of a good friend of his. The other is the woman who used to clean our house. :)
Christine
05-19-2008, 11:13 AM
No way. As a matter of fact, Dave's last girlfriend before me was the sister of one of the men in the wedding party. We invited him and his three brothers, but not his sister. We weren't being specifically mean, but she had put Dave through a lot of grief that was too much for me to handle. We also purposely didn't invite Dave's stepmother.
Edited to add: Dave's dad was married 5 times. When Dave was very young, he was dropped off with wife #2 and raised by her. She was a mean, abusive woman. Step-mother #5 was the one who stood as Dave's mother in the wedding.
not to our wedding. I wasn't really friends with my exes and the one's Patrick still talked to weren't really good friends.
However there was a time when my Dh worked volunteer EMS with one of my ex-boyfriends and the husband of his Ex-girlfriend that he dated before me. They would volunteer together at the station and got along quite well. I didn't mind as my ex was ok. He got a bit stalkish at one point but straightened out and turned out ok.
Tobye
05-19-2008, 12:32 PM
It'd have been a cold day in Hades when that psycho hose beast was welcome at our wedding.
:lmao:lmao Psycho Hose Beast! I had to think about where I'd heard that, and finally remembered "Wayne's World". Remember Wayne's ex-girlfriend Stacey, the psycho hose beast?
No. Other than one, I don't keep in touch. The contact with the one I do keep in touch with is sporadic and somewhat contentious at times.
Faith
05-19-2008, 01:57 PM
If we had invited people to our wedding, one of my ex's would of been invited as we are still friends. None of Rob's would of been as they are all out of state and I don't know any of them.
Shana
05-19-2008, 04:06 PM
Dear god, no.
Kristen
05-19-2008, 06:49 PM
I don't have any, and nope, none of Steve's were invited.
Danielle
05-19-2008, 06:52 PM
No, but then again we only had 13 people there. LOL