Looks like my sister is out of my life

[ColleenC]

My sister's 'wife' is a bitch to put it nicely. She is a very opinionated dyke(Self described, so it's not rude to say ;) ) I have had to deal with her talking badly about my family and yelling at my kids and not understanding why I told her off for yelling at them. She has no kids THANK GOD, but loves to tell me that my kids are bad because my dd screamed because a dog ran close to her.

Anyways the final straw was her helping my mom move last week and then posting something(on facebook) about my mom being a horder, junk collector etc... So I told her off and now she has told me to fuck off and she is done with my family. Well she means me, but that's fine. Our kids don't really know them, mainly because I totally accept their lifestyle but not the way they shove it down everyones throats and make it seem like we are bad people because we are straight.

I don't talk to my sister much at all and we never really got along growing up. We are total opposites, but it's still kinda sad.....What's even sadded, is that she won't stick up for her family because of her wife and how overbearing she is.

[Danielle]

I'm sorry Colleen :(. It's always so hard when a spouse comes between family members. I hope you guys will be able to work things out eventually.

[Sam]

I'm sorry.

It is always hard saying goodbye to family members. Hopefully one day you two will be able to sort it out :)

[ColleenC]

Maybe one day. I'm not sure. Like I said before my sister and I rarely talk even now, maybe 5 or 6 times a year.

Her wifey showed her true colors when she said she was 'done' with my whole family just because "I" called her out on what she said about my mom. She's not used to people standing up against her because she is quite abbrasive and people usually just ignore her shit.

[yummymommy]

That sucks, I'm sorry someone like that is causing problems for you and your sister, good for you for standing up to her though, maybe one day your sister will be able to too.

[Beka]

:hugs I am sorry it's come to this, it sucks when partners change our siblings so much that they forget where they came from and act like this.

[Maleah]

Sorry to hear that your sister's spouse is coming between the two of you. :(

[Brooke]

:squeeze

[ColleenC]

Thanks ladies.

I JUST got a facebook message from my sister, basically telling me to fuck off and I am out of her life because I have no life and I am a loser. That was the gist of it.

I wrote her back and told her to grab some balls and stand up to her before she comes between everyone else.

I am so angry right now I could spit. I STICK up for my mother and get reemed out?? Please....

[Danielle]

Yikes. I'm sorry Colleen.

[ColleenC]

Thanks Danielle. I am really not that sorry. My sister has been in a pain in my ass for almost my whole life. I can't even count how many times she beat me up(NOT play fighting she actually once bashed my head into a wall) and I am kinda glad to have that negativity out of my life. I am angry because of what she wrote in the email she sent to me. How dare she talk to me like that. She accused me of never being for my mom. Ummm HELLO!! I am the one that talks to her at least twice a day sometimes more. Since she moved(out of our city to one about an hour away) I have been to see her 3 times and she only moved a week ago. My sister doesnt work and should be there alot more often.

[kcmomma]

:hugs I'm glad that you can get rid of the negativity....you don't need that in your life, even if it is "family" negativitiy

[ColleenC]

Thanks! My brother said that life's too short to argue over something stupid, but I think that life is way too short to have negative people in it.