Ugh I want a baby!!!!!

[ColleenC]

I go through this every few months or so, but now it's NOT going away. I want a baby and can't imagine never having another newborn to hold and smell and cuddle with. I can't imagine never feeling another baby kicking or that feeling of sheer joy the moment they are born. I love being pregnant and I love giving birth and I love the smell and EVERYTHING about a baby.

The problem being? We aren't having another one. Ever. That is what we decided. Steve is dead set against ever having another one. But I want to have one properly(being married and all LOL)and we need to be more settled. I think if we were more settled financially, then we might consider it.

I am hoping that by the time I am 30 we might be in more of a position. Megan will be almost 9 and Cristian will be almost 7 so it would be better that way. Plus we will be married by then.

Doesn't help that I came home on my lunch hour to watch a baby story LOL

I need a friend to have one and I need to hear it scream for hours LOL That might cure me.

[Mary]

You can borrow mine! She's screaming her head off right now. I spent four hours in the ER today (no joke) because she's been crying since 1:00 this morning and I thought there was something wrong with her.

[ColleenC]

Oh no! Mary I'm sorry you are having such a hard time with her right now. I remember how hard it was for you with JZ. I really hope she calms down for you soon!

[Jo]

:hugs Mary! I hope she is ok!

Remember Colleen...just say no. Pretend that babies are drugs and just say no!LOL

[Desirae]

:squeeze Colleen! I have the baby bug too but am trying to hold it off.
:squeeze Mary, I hope she's ok.
:lmao Jo! OMG!

[Jenny]

oh girl..I take pictures of newborns and babies and they cure me of my babybug LOL

I still get it though, but it gets better as time goes by

[Tamika]

....can't imagine never having another newborn to hold and smell and cuddle with. I can't imagine never feeling another baby kicking or that feeling of sheer joy the moment they are born. I love being pregnant and I love giving birth and I love the smell and EVERYTHING about a baby.


Me. Totally me. word for word. Even after cringing because people ask if we're having more, i cringe if people count on their fingers after Rob and I say we went away for 3 days.....I DON'T want another child - but yet i can't believe I'll never feel one kick inside me, or like you said - experience that moment when they are born - my insides get quivery just remembering my babies first moments....

But, like you, Rob is DEAD set against it - I could be convinced although I say I am done.

[Heather]

Join the club! We can NOT have anymore. It's just hard to look at my kids.. and I love them all soooo so much and they've all brought so much to our family. My ultimate "dream" was to have 6 one day, but finances and medical issues have made it a no-go. It's sooo hard on me right now too, because several of my friends are due to give birth over the next 5 months and it's hard not to "miss" things when you're around a bunch of big bellies all the time ;). I'll be at a baby shower this sunday, in fact, where there will be several pregnant girls, so that's going to be interesting for me lol.

I just make sure to not drink after them, sit next to them, touch them, sit in any chairs they've sat on and so far it's working. I haven't "caught" anything. Yet LOL.

omg I BETTER NOT "CATCH" ANYTHING! What on earth would we do! lol.. ohhh scaaaawy thought.
I'm leaving this thread now, thanks :D